9.07.2009

哪兒



哪兒讓我聽鳥兒歌唱 充滿早上
哪兒望見星每夜來閃照 
數著入睡到天亮

哪兒若有天雨後虹彩降 可給我張望
哪兒讓我找老樹來依傍
那麼空矌那麼廣闊那麼清朗

9.02.2009

課題一,二

這陣子在學習的第一個課題是,信心。

包括自信,對對方的信心,對關係的信心,不因以往不好的經驗而害怕未來各種的可能性。不疑惑,不動搖,相信自己最初的最簡單直接的感覺。


第二個課題是,尊重。

家人之間,朋友之間,人之間的相處,貴乎互相尊重,關係才能維持長久。這是跟家人吃晚飯時忽然領略到的,總是知易行難。尊重對方的想法,體諒對方的情況,了解對方的需要,這都需要用心去經營。

努力呀鄺志珺。


另外好感謝媽子,今天晚餐有我最愛吃的潮州凍蟹,yummy yummy。身邊人都這般愛錫我,真好*

8.27.2009

越洋電話



如果你只是因為懶惰
如果你不願再想太多
如果你厭倦了
你後悔了
請回到我身後

如果你還在堅持什麼
如果你忍受不了寂寞
如果你厭倦了
你後悔了
假裝我在你身後

如果你的回憶太多
如果你的責任太重
如果你只是因為
你只是因為
只是因為寂寞

頓

躺在床上,合著眼,想著藍藍的天空,一片綠油油的草地,我站在天和地中間,用盡平生最大的力氣叫喊著,把所有的情緒都釋放出來。


深深吸氣,忽然心裡有一種頓然開闊的感覺。

才發現,怎麼過往的我,心態這般狹窄,把自己推向牛角尖了?


依然堅守所想,而我必需要重新反省自己。



願主保守。

8.23.2009

給你



Piano Sonata No.8

8.20.2009

雜感

這幾天失去好多,得到的也很多。

感謝幾位好好的朋友,陪伴我,到底我有幾生修到呢,能有這般愛錫我的朋友在身邊,感謝。

一位狂迷NLP的朋友跟我說了好多,叫我多看有關NLP的書(到底NLP的全名是甚麼? 哈),說人有分視覺型聽覺型甚麼的,對甚麼人講甚麼做甚麼能投其所好,聽起來似一些形而上的管理學。認真的,對改善關係未必有明顯大作用,不過在工作上,若能鑒貌辨色的話,必定有大幫助! 搞到我都好想去認識多一點。

另外,我在想一個中學時常聽到的聖經金句。
「施比受更為有福」。
有的,富裕的,去施予,比起沒有的,受贈的,其實更加有福。

要學習的東西還很多。

應學習如何在應快樂時放鬆情緒去享受,工作或其他有必要的情況不讓情緒帶動。

應學習平衝生活上的各種比重,與時間分配的比例。

路很長,要堅毅勇敢的走下去。



加油哦鄺志珺。

a quiz

http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx

無無聊玩個quiz,都幾準的,嘿。

Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love:

Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:

You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:

You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.